Saturday 5 March 2016

Reasons Why Many Nigerian Girls Are Single

Hello pipu,
Many of our cute naija girls are still single and the numbers are increasing. The problem is that some of them don't even know  they are single. After research and observation, here are some
reasons for their predicament:

1. Snobbishness - A lot of them are snobs. They're going out and they'll just plug earpiece and wear sunshades. When a guy approaches, they'll just bone face like rambo.

2. Silly Assumptions - Many females have a habit of assuming  any guy that talks to them simply wants sex. The truth is, animals are wired to want sexual gratification but this isn't always the only reason a guy may talk to you. He may just see you as beautiful.

3. Generalization - Sadly, a lot of females have had unpleasant experiences with the male folk. As a result, they generalize and  any male that bears any kind of resemblance or even reminds of the bad experience. This kind of generalization makes a lot of them  their shots at happiness..no matter how many times cupid tries.

4. False Identities - A lot of naija girls like to do undercover. They'll never be truthful about anything with a guy they just met. At the end
of the day, they fall for the guy and the truth pushes him away cos he can't trust her.
Some give the impression that they live around a certain measure of affluence when in fact, they have not washed the bowl they used to
soak garri last night. They end up scaring off shy but eligible partners. (not every guy is a Casanova)

5. Unreal Expectations - After devouring several harlequin romance novels, girls come to meet the world expecting that guy with perfect hair and an awesome smile...deep voice and perfect body
tone...christian grey typa nigga. Not saying they don't exist but there are so few of em...you'll prolly wait and die waiting.

6. Poor Ideologies - Most girls feel it is an aberration to talk to a guy...come to talk of telling him how they feel about him. There is the
notion that if you make the first move, you'll be treated like trash. Here's news for you: You may still be treated like trash after the guy makes the first move. Besides, the right guy will never treat you like that regardless of who makes the first move.
...I'll Stop here for now.
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